Resources for Mothers of the Incarcerated

Nearly two million people are living in prisons, jails, and correctional facilities in the US today, 93% of whom are men. Most of these men have mothers who carry the lion’s share of the burden of their care, regardless of the age or marital status of their sons. No matter what their crimes were, they continue to love and care for their sons. Mothers serve as their sons’ bankers, secretaries, legal consultants, and psychotherapists.

The additional workload contributes to the stress on mothers and increases their risks for multiple physical and emotional problems. And yet, mothers are nearly invisible in both the professional literature and criminal justice programming. Mothers of incarcerated sons are often isolated, fearing shame and blame from others, due to their sons’ arrests.

We can do better for mothers. We must do better for ourselves!

He’s Still My Son is designed to offer support and resources to mothers of incarcerated sons and those who love them. Despite vast differences in our circumstances and means, we are a growing, powerful and diverse community. If we work together, there is no limit to what we can accomplish for our sons, ourselves and in the criminal justice system.

“You described just about every feeling I have endured. It's been 10 years in for my son and I feel alone as if it was the day he first went to prison.”

“My tears are flowing and face all wet. You really hit home on this article! I'd add my hours of counseling and attempt of different meds and raising my second son as a baby when my oldest went to prison. 16 years later and trying to be a stronger and participating mother with a full time job is too much! Thank you so much.”

“Wow, well written and so accurate. Thank you for your insights and honesty. A genuine warrior’s story.”